Who is influencing your memory?
In 1917, artist Marcel Duchamp shocked the art world when he placed a urinal in an exhibition and called it Fountain. He didn’t sculpt it or paint it, he found it, placed it upside down and signed it with an anonymous name. With that gesture, he changed how people could view art, meaning that we can look at art not as an object but rather as an idea and the artist behind it.
What is not as popular is that another artist, Elsa von Freytag-Loringhoven, had done something similar before him. She stuck a cast-iron pipe upside down on a wooden box. It was a pipe you’d normally find behind a toilet, designed to prevent overflow. She titled it God, which is understandable, because imagine what would happen to your life if all plumbing stopped working.
The lesser-known story points to a practical lesson for all of us: every act of seeing can be impacted by someone else. Science shows that some of our memories are molded by what others highlight, repeat, and reframe for us. So, it helps to pause and ask: you spend your days impacting what others remember. You’re always influencing...and being influenced. The question is: by whom, and toward what kind of mind? It’s important to think about this because memories guide action, and those around you can determine what you do next. Choose to be surrounded by people who make your next move a bold one.