I recently came across this slide from a presentation we had built for a client a while back. It reminded me of a principle that we can all benefit from as we create communication for internal audiences or customers. In many of the neuroscience studies I conduct, I notice that it’s possible to use words that ignite emotions and, as a result, lead to brain synchronization between speaker and listener.
As you consider the words you’re using, know that comprehension (which most people aim for) is a great goal, but an even greater one is synchronization because that’s what ultimately leads to collaboration and cooperation.
Consider Martin Buber, the Austrian philosopher best known for his philosophy of dialogue. He is famous for the “I-Thou relationship,” meaning that words become bridges only when they connect lived human states, not just ideas. I like this perspective because we rarely think, especially in business communication, of linking human states when we share words or images.
So perhaps a promising frontier in communication is not only to be perfectly understood, but also to be deeply felt.